Frankly most people I meet online I think are probably full of BS in some manner or another I only have two real problems with online dating.and I am not saying this because I think your online sweetheart is doing this.just making the pointsġ. A lot fizzle quickly due to some of the common problems like learning everything about each other too quickly and losing the mystery. I will say though that our relationship is a bit rare for online relationships. Met my wife of ten years online at a Sailor Moon forum.we've been together over 11 and married about 10.5 now. Spend time doing things with each other and being in each other's presence. Now before you jump at me by saying, "WAIT, Are you saying that everyone needs sex in order to have a good relationship?!" No, I'm saying that you and your significant other should see each other. I feel that everyone has emotional AND physical needs from a relationship that should be satisfied when they want to be really happy with someone. While the idea of a long distance relationship can have this cutesy feel to it, I think you can't really have a great relationship without seeing each other in person and sharing a physical connection. However, when it comes to actual dating, I believe that a very crucial component of a relationship is physical interaction. Love is a delicate word, but if by someone's definition, they "love someone" over the internet, I don't think that's stupid at all. But when it comes to having relationships, I think that's a different story.
I don't really see a problem with loving someone over the internet. I agree with Luna Moonshire and GoneAirbourne
So is it stupid? Maybe, but since when is love dictated by whether or not it's smart or stupid anyway? My only advice would be to be cautious because you probably know a lot less about someone over the internet than you might think you do I guess what I'm saying is to get to really know a person you need to know how they fare in the face of adversity and that's something I don't think you can really gauge simply by talking. I mean unless you send cash to them or something trust is usually a non issue online.ĭon't get me wrong, I think the internet is a great way to meet people and get to know people, but I think there's a difference between learning a bunch of facts about a person while they're escaping from the world online and really knowing them and how they act under stress in the real world. In my opinion the only way to truly experience anything with anyone and get to really know them is in the real world where you both have contact with each other and must place your trust in each other.
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